With all due respect, we do not know what she said about this. What we have is hearsay statements from her estranged husband. I'm not a doctor, but I am lawyer and I can give a professional opinion on this question.
OK, I deal with this everyday. If a husband states his spouse doesn't want to live this way and a daughter disagrees BUT never had a discussion about the issue ,I always side with the legal guardian. I have done so many times and have actually went in front of a judge and have always won.