We can argue day and night on the specifics of this particular case, I personally happen to think it is murder.
IMHO though, your side will rue the day you took up this battle because this case and ones similar will set some very far reaching precedents to allow culling the deadweight in a system of socialized medicine (which is inevitable because more than 50% of us want a government mommy in some way or another). Allowing people outside of family and\or with great financial incentive to make life or death decisions like this is lunacy...
Mark my words, if she dies via this process we are entering a scary new level of human disposal.