Flame away.
Ha, I hear you on this subject. My girls all have a 'younger than they are' look to them and my 19 year old is always being told she doesn't even look 15. It drives her nuts and she wishes she looked older, but I know it is because of their innocence and kind-heartedness. It just radiates to the outside.
My 17 year old looks his age, I think, but he is known in our little town as one of the most respectful boys around.
God bless those children and their parents. I have been moved to tears...again.