Hildy,
You asked Mo1 a question.
You gave your own answer to your question.
You then called Mo1 (and others, myself included) some very descriptive names - all negative, mind you, but indeed very descriptive.
And then you said she couldn't mean that.
When I was growing up, if I did that in those steps, do you know what I was told by my mother?
You don't of course, because you were not blessed with knowing my mother.
If I did what you just did...
Poopy.
I HAVE DONE WHAT YOU JUST DID.
My mother sat accross the table from me (I was about 15, maybe 16) and said the following:
"....(my name, thank you), you just called her a liar."
No yelling. No grounding.
Just a disappointed look.
Was enough - taught me.
What on Earth are you talking about? Sorry, you lost me at
Hildy,