Thank you, but I think the topic only seems beyond rationality given our current context.
In an earlier age, a woman who behaved the way many college women behave would starve and men who behaved the way many college men behave would be killed.
The discipline of so many over centuries built the wealth we currently enjoy, a wealth which enables this behavior.
However, this behavior undermines the family, values like fidelity and loyalty, etc. and the loss of those values will ultimately wreck the wealth we've created and the ability to indulge in this indisciplined lifestyle will disappear.
dig deeper. it's not discipline in the middle of nothing. It was fear of G-d. It was the foundation. And on that, they built discipline, honesty, family values, etc, etc.
Nowadays, people got a bit too arrogant; they think if something is not "scientifically" provable, it's BS. So, naturally, if foundation eroded, you can only expect the building to collapse sooner or later. Trying to argue with people who have different foundation or no foundation at all is hopeless.