Well, that's what common sense tells me, but aparently some people don't have any! Terri is not being represented by an advocate, she is being railroaded by her nasty husband. What kind of woman would live and have children with such a low human being?
There's an old saying;
If you marry a man who cheats on his wife, that's exactly what you've got.
Of course, you could exchange "cheats" for a lot of other words, too.
If I were her, I'd learn to sleep lightly and with one eye open.