no, i understand entirely. i am just saying that his conflicts are ENORMOUS, and mitigate entirely in favor of discrediting anything he has to say about her fate. the conflicts, and the willingness of her family to take over her care are what make this completely outrageous to so many.
I think the "fiance" thing is going to go down in history. Out of all of this, it has given me a grim chuckle or two. The way people use language to justify all kinds of perfidy...