21 and unmarried.
But, unlike you, I consider the marriage vows sacred and not something you cut when the going gets tough.
I would love my wife and do all I could to save her no matter what the condition was unless it was her desire to have the plug pulled or something....but I would dang sure have proof it was her desire and put it on paper.
And, I certainly WOULD NOT get involved with another woman while she was still alive. That is flat adultery.
That is sin.
Ok, well then, I hope you never have to walk in the shoes Michael Schiavo has had to walk in for the last 15 years.