"If you have a written directive, it doesn't apply to you."
And if you don't and your family want's to pull the plug after oh I don't know, say 20 years. Then it's the government's decision? No thanks.
WRONG! Unless it is contested in court it is your family's decision to starve you to death, if in fact, that is what you mean by "pulling the plug"
No, it's your decision. You don't have the right to kill a family member just because they're disabled. Murder is wrong.
Murder --- is --- wrong.
Let me know when you think you understand that much, and then we can move forward. Until you understand that murder is wrong, any further conversation is pointless.