Well Hildy - I am unsure what you mean by "Please don't"!! I was only responding to your comment about Terri ending up being cared for by strangers. You implied that I had somehow insulted you or implied that you would not care for your own family member - I never said anything like that!
I only pointed out that she has other family (in addition to her parents) who seem dedicated to her. And then I shared a personal experience .... that because her sibling has seen their parents model the behavior of caring for her - they are more likely to do so themselves. That is all I was saying.
I'm sorry...I'm so used to being attacked here, it was a reflex! :)