And it was SHE who used the the childishly offensive phrases about...well, I don't want to offend.
And since she so lovingly used that phrase, I couldn't help making the connection with a psychiatric opinion I'd once read. I stand by the fact that some shrinks see a connection between certain immature attitudes toward death and...um...a morbid fascination with certain...um... well you know what I mean. Look it up if you doubt it.
Can we all cool off..
I got your back here baby! Were people talking about me when I was gone? Oh heck, what did they say?
And I am sorry if I helped you get in trouble with certain people here who lecture on respecting others who are demeaning helpless women whose husbands are killing them