Nothing new or shocking? While the wife he's trying to starve to death lies brain-damaged in some hospice? Right, happens a lot; water off a duck's back ... Sheesh.
In the end, your rationale seems to be that breaking vows made under oath and before God and family is no big deal because, oh well, others do it everyday.
Wasn't going to mention it, but...I have a cyber girl friend in that situation.
There's no real difference.
Except Terri has no idea what her hubby's lifestyle is.
He does go and visit her.
He was there yesterday and today.
In fact, he visits her on a regular basis. is.