And I bet that if your future husband knew you wanted to be able to screw him royally in the event of a divorce, he'd be livid too.
Good answer!
As a woman, I'd be insisting on a pre-nup of some kind to show my faithful intentions.
"And I bet that if your future husband knew you wanted to be able to screw him royally in the event of a divorce, he'd be livid too."
How is a 50/50 split of assets in the event of divorce screwing anyone over? Keeping a secret bank account from one's spouse is sumply not appropriate.
I just asked him about this via Instant Messenger. He would consider it a betrayal of my trust as his wife to keep secret money from me. So there's your answer.