[Campion]

As a woman though I find it absolutely ridiculous that its always my fault sex ends in a pregnancy when I don't use birth control.

If we have a healthy attitude toward sex then we don't blame people when it results in a new life. That's what it's supposed to do.

If we have a healthy attitude toward sex, though, we keep in marriage where God intended it to be.

[marajade]

I agree. But to punish someone for a mistake is counterproductive.