>>> It makes no difference if a man dies in a car crash or in a murder, because death is death. >>>
Only if you push the man off a cliff in the car. Explain the difference in abortion and birthing a child you know will not live and will die a lingering death?
So now the child is dying a lingering death?
Sandbar, the difference is clear. Simply, you don't kill the child. The child does not lose his life by your hand.
Let me give a more apt comparison. Someone has an fatal disease, beyond any possibility of cure. He will die a lingering death. Can you kill him, because he'll die anyway? Is there nothing wrong in taking an innocent's life, if the innocent will die anyway?