Very scary, it's strange but I hear stories like this and my first thought is go in and kiss their little heads... :) I'm divorced but I'll even call my ex if she has them (split custody) on a night like this and tell, "just go in and give the boys a kiss for me..." I'm sure she thinks it's weird but.......well who the hell knows, maybe that's why we're divorced.. :)
I know, having an urge to call my daughters. You worry so about their world colliding with a world of this mans.
Like you walk in the courthouse to pay a traffic fine or meet a friend and bang, you are gone.