I'm sorry that you had a bad experience in a church when you wore a skirt, blouse, pantyhose and heels. Wow, that must have been a strange church. In my experience, that sort of dress is more common than not.
Perhaps that is why you seem to keep thinking, for some reason that I cannot fathom, that I ever implied that I was somehow better than you. So please, for the last time, quit implying that I have said that. Please.
I was thinking about this discussion after I got offline last evening. I re-reviewed the pings w/ YOUR name and them and I realized that I over-reacted to YOU (and probably under-reacted to others, such as Melas). Sometimes in the heat of conversation names blur and you find yourself quoting the wrong thing to the wrong person. After reviewing things, I came to find that I owe you a profound apology.