You are making broad comparisons between several different points that have been made by several different people. I know that I, for one, never said that I "don't believe that God's word has anything to say about what to wear and when to wear it, or that the Bible has any standards for your lives". Anyone can open up the Bible and play what I refer to as "Bible Bingo" in their attempts to come up with some quote that can be interpreted in such a way as to support any given argument.
And I never said I thought it was o.k. for people to go to church dirty....or "white" (unclean) as you put it.
Perhaps you aren't trying to be insulting, but IMO, you are being terribly insulting to those who don't agree with your particular religious beliefs. God loves all of those who believe and worship Him. I do not believe you are any better than the rest of us in spite of what you might think.
Well, I find it terribly insulting when people who dress like "slobs" claim that those of us who dress respectfully in G-d's house are "pharisees" and that because you wear jeans to church that your heart automatically is more pure, unmaterialistic and right w/ G-d than the guy next to you who cared enough to dress respectfully for the occasion.
I also find it insulting to me that you think people who dress nicely in G-d's house think they are "better than the rest of us". It's elitist enough to make you gag.