[sodpoodle]

Please reconsider - your daughter is married and your son-in-law is working. All work is honorable. Consider if he were selling drugs, robbing old ladies - or killing for fun and finance.

Your daughter must have found some good qualities in this young man. I am assuming, you raised her with good judgement. Perhaps you could encourage your son-in-law to finish school and reach for the sky. Otherwise you will be estranged from your daughter and ?grandchildren.

Not preaching, just remembering.

[Howlin]

Bless you.

[speed_addiction]

Please reconsider - your daughter is married and your son-in-law is working. All work is honorable. Consider if he were selling drugs, robbing old ladies - or killing for fun and finance.

I appreciate the value of work. What pisses me off about this guy is he lack of ambition. He is already out of school. There are plenty of jobs here. Good paying (but labor intensive) oil field jobs. He refuses to try to do better. He likes the 30 hours a week because it gives him plenty of time to hang out with friends.

I see my grandson. I provide clothes and diapers but that is it. Nothing that can in anyway benefit this asshole comes out of my pocket.

My oldest daughter (though half deaf and half blinded in Iraq) shows more drive than this guy. She has absolutely refused to let her recently aquired disability stand in her way.