[i]She came "out of the closet" at age 13 [/i]
My mom is a teacher at a New England prep school and tells this story. One girl was a very proud lesbian. She was very athletic and starred in multiple sports. A couple years later her younger sister who is an equally good athlete comes to the school. She too proudly announces that she is a lesbian.
Next year the older sister goes off to college and on Thanksgiving break brings back a boyfriend that she is madly in love with. The younger sister was heartbroken and cried for days. She'd spent her whole life emulating her older sister, even to the point of becoming lesbian.
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