That's the kind of stuff I am seeing and it is really making me angry. I don't think I can say anymore here. Thanks for posting this. It's just so manipulative.
I definately got the notion that the death of the person in hospice was the goal, and that doing anything to prolong her life, such as hospitalizing her if we felt we needed to, was "not allowed". At the time, I wasn't thinking very clearly, because we were all exhausted, but afterwards, the memory of some of the things that happened have haunted me.