That's a real hoot, coming from you.
In addition to your incredibly mean statements about women that haven't married, you seem intent on remaining ignorant of issues regarding Chinese adoption. Since there are other folks out there that might actually want to be informed, I'll address a couple of your points for them:
"It's no wonder that MANY kids are soo screwed up and you want to repeat the scenario with adopted kids who already have a few strikes against them. What child wants to face the fact that NO ONE, in her/his family wanted them?"
The idea that a child wasn't wanted by anyone in their birth family is not correct. Not everyone can raise a child that's been born to them, no matter how much they want to do so....especially in China with the one child policy that's been in place for so long. Many of these girls would have been raised by their families if that didn't exist. Instead, parents have been tortured, forcibly sterilized, their homes demolished, they've been fined enormous amounts of money, and any of their children born without a permit have no rights to an education, among other things. In one case, a child born outside the birth quota was drowned in a rice paddy (in front of his parents) by local birth control officials. Living safely in the US, it's hard to imagine living under such a brutal system.
" It will be housed away in daycare ... because she "has to work" and she really is ABOVE that stuff ... so what have you gained? NOTHING."
The idea that being sent to daycare in the US is somehow equivalent to living in a third world orphanage is ludicrous. Mortality rates of Chinese orphanages in the 90's were regularly estimated to be at least 80%. See The Dying Rooms for more detail about this.
"I know, lets look down on kids who are unwanted and give them out to whoever wants them. "
Anyone applying to adopt has to undergo rigorous interviews with social workers. You're fingerprinted and checked by the FBI and Interpol. Not just anyone can adopt.