[HamiltonJay]

She dated, "but I realized I wasn't really looking for a husband for me, I was looking for a father for my future children," she says. "I decided that wasn't a good reason to get married."

But it was good enough reason for me to voluntarily and consciously raise a child alone and subject them to all the risks single parenting subjects children too.. aren't I a giving and caring person? FOOL!

[PennsylvaniaMom]

Do you honestly believe there are more 'risks' involved with being raised by a single, American mom, here in the US, than by existing in a Chinese orphanage? That is the question at the root of all of this...