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To: Dan from Michigan
The problem with adopting American orphans is that you got cases of the birthparents five years later changing their mind and taking them back - and the judge goes along with it.

But if this is supposed to be about the good of the children--as many here seem to say--then wouldn't it be nice if those American kids had a chance to live in a real home, even if only for a few years until their real parents take them back?

Or is this adoption thing not about helping children after all?

143 posted on 02/22/2005 10:27:24 PM PST by Age of Reason
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To: Age of Reason

Do you have children? Do you know anyone who has adopted a child in the States, or from anywhere else? Do you ever wonder why you feel the way you do?


146 posted on 02/22/2005 10:33:15 PM PST by Chena
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To: Age of Reason

Are you intentionally trying to be unreasonable?

People have recognized throughout that adoption is both for the benefit of the child and the parents who adopt. So, yes, permanence is an important factor for US citizens who adopt at least partially for their own benefit. Yet you want to take that benefit away from them even though you have yet to answer the question as to why international adoptions should be penalized in the first place. It's clearly not just about population control as you advocate for procreation. So what is it? Why don't you answer the question?

Adoption is a benefit that benefits both the family and the child. That fact that both are true does not take away from the other.


147 posted on 02/22/2005 10:36:57 PM PST by mongrel
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To: Age of Reason
even if only for a few years until their real parents take them back?

Uprooting them is worse. You think the kids can just pick up and move from the only parents they've known?

222 posted on 02/23/2005 8:42:54 AM PST by Dan from Michigan ("There out ta get me! They won't catch me! I'm #@^#@# innocent! They won't break me" - Guns N Roses)
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