is there a victim here? The victim would seem to be taxpayers who will be tapped to pay for most of the health-related cost of this behavior.
Taxpayers aren't the only losers.
AIDS doesn't kill directly, it weakens the immune system to the point that other diseases a healthy person would shrug off are fatal. Perverts in the latter stages of AIDS are ideal breeding grounds for all manner of communicable diseases which they spread to normal people through the non-voluntary vectors.
HIV is the first disease in history that has been given civil rights. It is one of the most fragile and difficult to transmit viruses around. The most basic public health measures would have stopped it in its tracks in this country 20 years ago.
But instead, unwillingness to do anything that would offend homosexuals has already killed half a million Americans directly, another million are infected and will die of it eventually, and there is no telling how many ordinary people caught the flu from the dying wreck without an immune system they were forced to ride the subway with.