Yes that's what I don't understand. I would not want this for my son. It's not God's best.
That's because the "attaboy" types are middle-aged men who are all going through their own erectile dysfunction problems, and one of the few things that work for them is reminiscing about when erections were plentiful yet useless -- back when they were in class undressing some nubile eighth-grader with their eyes, or, even better, fantasizing about the fresh-from-college sorority slut with an education degree standing at the front of the classroom.
There. I said it.