Life is all about choices. If you want the It's all about my ambitions career, take a pass on the kids. One or the other is going to suffer and I'm sorry to say it's usually the children.
You analysis is simple and correct. However the liberal left can not make choices because they have no training to make choices.
They are taught to never deny themselves any tactile experience. Never worry about money because they can talk others into giving them money. Thay have been taught there is no morality since no moral choice is right or wrong.
....and odly the left teaches the only wrong absolute is anything associated with the right/conservative.
This woman does not even "get it" that being religious is in no way required to being a mother.