well instead of writing to Oldfriend you could have written me back in regards to what I said......it is not the harshness of your words as much as the inappropriateness and intolerance of them......so if I disagree with you, then by your definition you are a jacka** and a fool if I so chose to call you one......I don't think you would find that at all complimentary and would show an immaturity on my part if I did.....