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You are a man I presume. I am a single woman, and not that very attractive so I know from whence I speak. You have to be a very different social setting as I've never seen that before. You've just dispelled my notion about some churches though *LOL*

I think, men are more willing to admit than woman are willing to admit, that attractiveness matters.
I don't know, maybe the reason you have not notice it or seen in women, or women having this kind of behavior is because you might not have looked at it with a open mind or from a subjective standpoint of view.
I hope I am not sounding to frank here, but, I call a SPADE A SPADE when I see it. I don't know, you just have to be there, when you see it happening.
For example, there was this guy in church that most women ( if not all ) were not attracted to.
One day, he was talking ( he was trying to show his interest to her ) to one of my friends, and I could see the discomfort level in her face.
When I walked up to her while she was talking to him, I saw the look in her face, she had this look of relief on her face, and told me to talk to him instead of her talking to him, I knew what she was doing.

Cyborg ? In life, there are going to be things and people who shape your opinion about life itself.
Yes, all of us in life have had our good times, and bad times, and that is a part of life.
I have learned though, to not mix up my thoughts, opinion's and attitudes about GOD because of how people are in the church or in life.
Remember ? GOD'S ways are not our ways, God's ways are above our ways.
Some of us here on FR that are saying things that we know that we should not say, have gotten on the BANDWAGON of making fun of someone ( either because it's not right to say, or hurts someones feelings ) later, we will have to go to GOD and to say to GOD were are sorry and ask for forgiveness for some of the things we have said.
Remember ? ALL HUMANS ( in the book of ROMANS, it says " For ALL have sinned, and have come short to the glory of GOD " ALL HUMANS, are fallen creatures, NONE of us are PERFECT. Please ( I am not saying you do or don't , this is for anyone ) but, please ? you have to develop your own relationship with GOD, and you have to develop your own views, feelings about GOD on your own. Please don't hold it against GOD for what you have seen other people do.