Golly gee whiz. Neither me (1949) or my sister (1951) had to ask Mom or Dad who or what we were.
WTH's wrong with todays kids/punks/lowlifes? WTF?
Oooops! Sorry for the double post...
Presumably, your fetal development was normal. There are some mishaps in nature. Typically, people are sympathetic to those with a physical deformity. Imagine, after a story on cleft palate, if you would say, "What's wrong with these folks? I ain't got no holes in my face!" Of course, you would NEVER say such a thing.
This has nothing to do with physically normal people believing they really are a different gender.