My intent was not to "change" anything, but to illustrate reality - that sometimes the racists are people we don't just choose not to vote for or refuse to hire to babysit our children.
They are often important people in our lives.
(My grandfather is deceased and was never in the KKK, by the way - that was hypothetical, in case I didn't make that clear.)
Furthermore, to "confront and correct" is not rejection of a person, in my mind.
I honestly thought we were done with this, but I guess not.
Your concession on the "confront and correct" part is all I was really looking for. We can leave it at that. Nice talking to you.