Are you even the slightest bit aware that Terri has a younger brother and sister who intend to help out? Her parents are aging, but my God, those two are full of life! Yes, I've met them! They are wonderful people!
Not to mention that there are some of us who actually would take Terri into our own homes if that suited her family. There is great honor in taking care of one such as Terri.
Yeah, me TOO! It isn't hard, need a routine to happiness and the willingness to provide love and attention.
Then I think you should open your pocketbook and volunteer.