[Alkhin]

Thats not what I got out of it. There's something to be said for not at least being vocal in your thoughts in the marriage. I know plenty of women who just stuff inside, but it always comes out...usually in passive-aggressive behavior...which in my opinion, is a much nastier thing to happen in a marriage that a screaming match.

[WhyisaTexasgirlinPA]

I know you haven't met my Marine but we've been married for over 20 years now and he only once has called me a name - and he was laughing when he did it - I deserved to be called the name and it shocked me so that I started laughing also.......... I can't even imagine loving someone and calling them names..........

We rarely argue either -