Thanks..I hated to psot that, because you don't want to wish anyone bad luck, but the odds are against them..NOW.. OTOH, the one thing he's done wisely..I listen to him occasionally, when I can, I don't believe he's ever mentioned Kagan's name, or the relationship, on the air..he's learning..
Yeah, I listen to him quite a bit and I haven't heard him either. Now, having been in AA for a number of years, the "no relationships for a year" thing is really because it puts your recovery at risk.... BIG RISK! The actual relationship is more the "after-thought" as to whether or not it will work. Your head is so messed up for that year with all stuff that you've never really gone through sober that you really NEED to try to go through it without the distraction of a physical relationship in the way, you know?