You stated clearly that you believe Love thy neighbor trumps Loving the Lord. Jesus Christ says otherwise.Did He?
"As long as you did it for one of these, the least of my brethren, you did it for Me."
Loving your neighbor IS loving the Lord.
Did he? "Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law? And He said to him, YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND. This is the great and foremost commandment.
Why yes he certainly did.