I think this whole thing is illustrative, it is best described by liberals in action. They have affairs, lie and cheat on their taxes and are considered normal. A conservative does the same thing and he is worse than an adulterer, liar and cheater. When a liberals child lives a sodomite lifestyle the lax attitude at home is praised as tolerance and acceptance. When a conservatives child chooses this behavior it is because the rules of the family were too strict, and judgmentalism caused the rebellion. Either way, the child chose the behavior the parents the response. I will bet that the wayward child of the conservative has a much better chance of finding their way to a happy life than the liberal. The liberals child will all of their life revel in their "difference", while the conservatives child will at least be well aware that their life is in opposition to any real measurement of importance. Like their families love, and the will of the creator.
Right off the bat I can see that you equate conservative with strict, and I do not. We're not even remotely on the same page on this one. I never mentioned conservative and liberal households.