I don't think it has anything to do with marrying - I think it has more to do with the PC attitudes at school, which includes the feminization of our boys.
I believe that's why Laura Bush has started a program called Passport to Manhood - where young boys are mentored about their responsibility as a husband and father. This is a great program and I can see where a whole generation of young black men will end up making a real difference in the lives of their families and their communities.
Personally, I think soccer is quite symbolic of what has happened to today's youth. Kids today are encouraged to play on coed teams because they should be "equal." Well they're not! They never have been, never will be and God never wanted them to be. When I was a kid, boys played football and girls did gymnastics. Boys were taught to be tough and stand up for themselves, yes I mean fighting. Today, boys and girls are all taught to be alike, until puberty comes and then their hormones take over and all of their lifelong "familiarity" creates even more problems; but there again, the left seems to think its okay for thirteen year old girls to dress and act like harlots.