Well if some underwear model guy with a donkey d!@k gets a hold of your 13 year old daughter someday.. I hope you will as willing to point out his physical attractiveness in a discussion of his crime as you seem to be for this poor child.
There is no comparison. There is a double standard at work here, and it's fine by me. :-
Umm... I'm male. So I wouldn't be pointing out his physical attractiveness no matter who's daughter it was.
You are exactly right...no one would mention the attractiveness of a male teacher and a female student. The fact that that even comes up bothers me. What she did alone should make her repulsive to any man!
Reminds of football coach in High School. He was 24 years old, had played 2 or 3 years as a safety in the USFL, and every single girl in the school was madly in lust over him. Would it been OK for him to sleep with the girls, "because they wanted it", of course not. Would it have harmed the girls, probably not, it would not have been the first sexual experience for most of them. You have to set rules for all teachers, otherwise what happens when a Homo gets into some poor confused 13 year old? Well the kid enjoyed it, etc. you let the hot chick off, you're discriminating.