I babysat a boy since birth. He grew up to be a fine young man. I'd never sleep him. He's a kid. Grown women who have sex with young boys have issues. Perhaps this is why some men get divorced, run around with women,etc.
And we have a winner!
For every 3 boys who aren't 'hurt' by this, you have the one where it is pretty frickin' damaging--- because the woman has been in a surogate mother role.
And like you said, why would any woman want a teenager! Geez, talk about a bottle rocket.