[paulat]

The whole saga is a sad, pathetic mess. I feel sorry for the boys and hope they can, or perhaps already have, come to some kind of understanding with their new "mum".

Oh, for pete's sake!!! She's not "their new mum," nor would she ever presume to be. Haven't you ever dealt with any divorced couples...or re-marrieds"

[Reagan is King]

Their new "stepmom" is the woman their father cheated with while married to their deceased real mom. You may think that's just a normal divorce/remarry situation for the kids but I don't.