It sounds like it would be best for everyone if you put your children back in public school and stopped pretending you're homeschooling. The only common ground between homeschooling and what you're doing is that you do your thing in your house.
I do apologize-- please don't take offense because it seems like I often say the wrong thing without knowing it because either I haven't attended homeschooling get-togethers regular enough, or I show up late. But I really mean it when I say I'm not just one of them Christmas 'n Easter homeschoolers --I really got homeschoolin' in my heart. Not that I'm one of them text-book thumpin' homeschoolier than thou types.
Wait, let me prove where I'm commin' from:
Gimme that oooold time homeschoolin' gimme that old time homeschoolin' gimme that....