there are differences between the genders, Cy - I thought you agreed with that concept.
one that is relevant here is physical damage.
another is pregnancy.
another, which should be utterly obvious from many of the posts on this thread, is that men and women (and males and females) look at the same set of circumstances in very different ways.
I am not offended, Cy.
I am puzzled why you seem to be offended at men not thinking the way you do, that is all.
If you don't get why underage boys shouldn't be having sex with women twice their age, I can't help you!