You'd definately feel different if that was your daughter in that 'position'.
Yes there is definitely a double standard. Definite double standard. I would press charges if it happened to my son but I don't think it would necessarily hurt him.
No doubt about it. But no complaint is no complaint, amigo.
One thing that I did have to realize with my daughter was that she was her own person. Sometimes it takes a bit of sole-searching for a father to come to grips with the maturation process of their daughters.
Naturally no one wants their daughter to be put upon by anyone. In my neck of the wood forceful unwanted attention to the female of the species could have fatal results (She's a better shot than her brothers).
At the same time, if she made a choice in life - then that was her choice. Through the love, education and respect given her by her Mom and me we have been fortunate to never have a problem with her.
Now the boys are a different story! They're good but a might frisky! Given me a few grey hairs.
That's different.
And yes...it's hypocritical and unfair and no we can't explain it.
I had basically the same discussion with my wife last nite.
I do want my lads to be responsible and kind above all to girls.
We would prefer our daughters have sex only with their husbands.....not likely these days.
My wife just did a drive by and asked if my thread about the little pervert girl teacher was still going. She and I don't always agree on everything obviously..lol
For the record, I don't want my daughters to have sex with ANYONE until they are married. I'm not sure if I'll get my wish though...