Why are you lumping everyone together? I'm just saying that if somebody wants to die ... not live in the situation they are in, they should have the ability to make that decision for themselves. You obviously don't understand the meaning of respect, so we're through.
And if we accepted these people's initial reactions as their only reactions, you'd have more of a point than you do.
But very nearly ALL these people change their minds and realize life is preferable to death. Period.
Thus, responsible people (you and me) should not take these early reactions as fact, but as a part of the process of healing. Our job as human beings, as followers of the Judeo-Christian ethos, as Christians, should be to help these people get past their depression so they can live again in peace and prosperity.
Whether you realize it or not, you're saying their first reaction is their only reaction; their depression is unending; and their lives worthless.
Again, I encourage you to talk to some paraplegics. They'll open your eyes.