[ParityErr]

She can blame you all she wants, wont change a thing. It was her choice She is wrong Things will never be the same The marriage may well be over, but it can be salvaged. Not an easy thing... If there is any way of keeping it from the kids, I would advise that. If the marriage survives, you don't want them to know what their mother did

Unfortunatly the marriage is over. She has been unhappy for many years and told me the only thing keeping her with me is the kids. I will not be telling the kids what she did just that mommy doesn't love daddy anymore. The kids is what breaks my heart the most since they suffer the most.

[Centurion2000]

She has been unhappy for many years and told me the only thing keeping her with me is the kids.

As soon as she told you that statement your marriage ended. It happened to me that way as well. I just ddin't see the divorce coming. Piece of advice, get proof NOW no matter how much the private detective costs and DO NOT confront her until you are ready for a divorce because it's gonna get REALLY UGLY.

If it's any consolation, there is light at the end of the tunnel, I found it. Check your freepmail please.