If you read further, you'll see I am equally hard on women too. It's not fair to look at any marital issues strickly from your own gender's perspective. Trust me, I've seen as many, if not more, women who have serious issues.
I'm not arguing with that at all. While I see no real accomplishment in a successful bowel movement, there's something to be said for being able to change a spark plug on a lawn mower.
I think good sense, balance and moderation are important in all things. In that most important thing, marriage, more so.
I suspect men and women of good will agree that there are saints and sinners on either side of the gender line, and no one likes getting pigeonholed into a stereotype.