As a parent YOUR responsibility is to keep fighting, not sit on your butt and relax when the enemy is still at your door.
Here you go insinuating that I'm not doing anything.
What do you know ..?? I take care of my mom who is 92 years old and suffers from demenia. The rest of the time, I go to school to learn a new trade because I need to have extra income. I'm writing a book. I run the San Diego Chapter of FR - although we're not really that active at the moment - but I'm sure we'll gear up as we get closer to 2006.
If you call that "sitting on my butt" and "relaxing" .. you're in la la land.