Churches bend over backwards for couples like this
Your right. About twenty years ago my father got into a row with our Lutheran Church when a transvestite parishoner wanted to use the womens rest room. The church council debated letting him/her use it, creating a new bathroom for the trans community, or making gender neutral bathrooms. Needless to say we stopped going to church after that.
You should have phrased that:
"Churches" bend over backwards . . .
Quotes were needed there!