Anthropologists studying great apes discovered that females would pair up with the better and more attentive providers but on the sly would mate with the bigger, better specimens that wrere the Alpha Males. Making for better offspring because of better genes. Humans are pretty much wired the same way. In my younger wilder days I preffered married women and their husbands were always considered good catches. Educated, hard working "nice" guys who were usually lacking in the all elusive cool and macho factors. Something a motorcycle riding, katana weilding, long hair wearing, weight lifting, scarred, former US Army Ranger like myself had a wealth of.
Women like bad men especially those with the smell of blood about them. Women are wired in ROM to love grunts.
I was looking at some PCs of me, that my sister sent me from 1967, 160 pounds of mean, lean, fighting machine, good times, she didn't have any pics of me when I was 130 ponds from my first tour.
I wouldn't trade any of my experiences, for anything, they taught me to be an adult, but I would like to be 22 again and just back from the wars.