"took a poor naive girl out with him."
I don't care how old you may be: 37 years old is NOT a "girl". It's one thing to be young and stupid, something we all are early on. But if you're STILL that dumb by the time you're 37, there's probably no hope for you.
Normally when you are 37 and that stupid, you don't make it to 38, she didn't.
True, but at my age, 37 is a girl. It's the pits to get old!